Hello Personal Finance Canada!

EDIT: I live in New Brunswick

EDIT 2: for everyone telling me to move closer to work, this is the only place for rent that is closer to work than where im at: 1 Bedroom 1 Bathroom, $1200/month. Difference in the distance to work: 2KM

I am seeking some help with Budgeting! I am 20 years old, I make $34,100 a year on salary at my current job that I have been at for 2.5 years. Here is a list of my current Expenses.

Take Home Pay: $ 1,904.00/Month

-Rent: $850.00/month (Includes Heat & Lights, as well as Internet)

-Car Payment: $343/month

-Car Insurance: 289.00/month

-Phone Bill: $136.00/month (Rogers, I cant wait to be done with it)

-Gas: Approximately $200 a month (I Commute approx 45 Km a day, more if i need to go to town to get groceries)

-Groceries : Honestly, No Idea. I haven't gotten groceries In 2 months, so im just living off stale cereal and some Mr. Noodles.

Now, On top of that, My dumb ADHD brain recklessly spends, and I have 2 maxxed out credit cards ($500 limit on each, and currently owing is well over $500 on each) and a $1000 Moneymart loan (Cause i am an idiot.)

I am honestly in such bad financial shape. I have a horrible credit score, and I suck at making a budget. I also do not have anyone IRL who can help me with this, hence why I have turned to the Finance gods here on reddit for some advice.

Thank you in advance!