Do you ever have a legal obligation to pay RESP money back to your parents?

A. Great question, Barbara. Because your parents are the subscribers of the RESP—meaning they set up the account for you and made the contributions—the money is legally theirs until they pass it over to you, the beneficiary. But once the money is in your hands it is legally yours and you don’t have to pay it back to them.
There are, however, a few other things you and your parents should keep in mind about your RESP funds, especially given your plan to pause your studies.
As you may recall, during the first semester of your first year of university, you were allowed to draw a maximum of $5,000 in Educational Assistance Payments (EAP), which includes the government grants paid into the RESP and any interest or investment growth on the RESP savings. As the beneficiary, those EAP withdrawals become part of your annual taxable income.
You were also allowed to take out whatever amount you wanted from the available Post-Secondary Education (PSE) funds, or the principal contributions your parents made to the plan. PSE withdrawals are not taxable, because your parents already paid taxes on that money when they earned it.
After the first semester, any amount and combination of EAP and PSE withdrawals are allowed, so long as you have proof of enrolment in an eligible post-secondary institution and program. But if you leave school—as you are planning to do—and more than a year passes before you return, then once again you will be limited to $5,000 of EAP in the first semester back.
Furthermore, it’s important to understand that the maximum lifetime of an RESP account is 35 years. At that time, the plan must be closed and whatever amount of money is left is dispersed as follows:
- The grant is returned to the government
- The principal is returned to the subscribers (your parents), and
- The growth is returned to the subscribers (your parents) as taxable income, along with a 20% penalty.
Therefore, it’s in your parents’ best interest to withdraw all the money from the RESP while you qualify for withdrawals and before the plan expires after 35 years.
If you leave school and there’s a possibility you might not return, your parents may want to consider withdrawing all the RESP funds now, after taking the following into consideration: